It was summer 2002, right around my 11th birthday. I had gone to my dad’s house for a weekend visit and ended up getting my first period on the Friday night.

I asked my mom to come pick me up on the Saturday because my dad and his wife were just not prepared to be helpful. Periods, sexual health, etc. type topics (or any type topics, really!) have never been uncomfortable or unwelcome at my mom’s house, so when I got home, my stepdad greeted me with a loud “So I hear you’re a woman now!”, a huge smile, and a hug.

My mom generally didn’t use tampons, so her friend came by with a small box because we all planned on going swimming. They both sort of talked me through inserting it properly and comfortably from the other side of the bathroom door, and then we just went about our day! Apart from not being in the most ideal location at first, I know a lot of girls who have experienced worse! Not a bad first time! READ MORE… »

By Gabrielle Lichterman

 

Dread your period week because of menstrual-related aches and fatigue? Hey, it’s not all bad! The onset of your period signals significant hormone changes that can make you happier and healthier. 4 reasons to love your period weekHere are 4 reasons you can look forward to your flow:

1. Your period means the end of annoying PMS!

There’s no better antidote to annoying premenstrual syndrome—and the moodiness, irritability, sleeplessness and other discomforts that come along with it—than getting your period. That’s because the start of menstruation signals that estrogen is rising, reversing the cause of your premenstrual woes: plunging estrogen. Even better? This hormone continues to rise all throughout your menstrual week, improving your mood, outlook and energy as it climbs! (Hint: Eating foods high in iron—such as beans, fortified cereal, spinach and tofu—or taking a daily multivitamin that contains iron can help boost your mood and energy even faster by replacing iron lost during menstruation.)


2. During your period week, the bathroom scale numbers go down!

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We at Be Prepared. Period. are super excited to announce the newest member of the team, Danielle, our new Community Outreach Intern!

DanielleDanielle joins us as a 21-year-old college student from New York who’s studying Business Administration – due to graduate this May.

Sharing a common goal of wanting to help others, she joins us to help spread the word about the resources we offer to women and girls. Resources to not only prepare girls and parents for puberty (and menarche), but to improve menstrual health among all women.

Danielle also recognizes the need for open menstrual communication as she shares her own first period story:

“As I reflect back on all the things that have happened over the school years I remember my first period.

I am extremely close with my mom, so talking about my period and what was going to happen before it actually happened was a major topic around 11-12 years old. It was nice to not be blind sided by my period. Of course at 12 years old getting ready for school, going to the bathroom and realizing I got my period was blind siding. But, the multiple conversations I had with my mom about it made the whole situation easier. I went into her room told her I got my period, she gave me a hug and cried and said her little girl was growing up. She handed me a pad, showed me how to use it. She then handed me a little brown bag to put into my purse with pads in it, told me to change it every few hours and I was on my way to school.

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By Jennifer Aldoretta


If you’re interested in learning how to track your cycle, then there are plenty of resources out there that can help. My  book,
The Cycle, teaches the basics of cycle tracking and is available for download here. Toni Weschler’s Taking Charge of Your Fertility is also an excellent guide. There are also many fertility awareness educators that teach classes online for a small fee.


Top 5 reasons to track your cycleRemember sex ed classes? Well, it turns out they completely skipped a ton of stuff about the menstrual cycle! For example, did you know that it’s only possible to get pregnant for a small portion of your cycle? And that an ovulated egg has a lifespan of just 24 hours? Or that your cycling hormones produce changes in your body that can be easily observed? It’s all true!

While that’s all very interesting, you may still be wondering why in the world you’d ever want to track your cycle. The truth is, I used to wonder the very same thing. But now that I know just how awesome cycle tracking is, I’m here to share with you my top 5 reasons (in no particular order) why you should consider giving it a try.

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By Dr. Michelle Lim

 

Do you find yourself eating a pint of Yogurtland with a hot pack over your belly, popping Midol, and watching re-runs of The Kardashians once a month?

Chiropractic and Menstrual DiscomfortFor some of us, this scene is just part of the routine every couple of weeks.  Like clockwork, we are confined to stay in due to cramps, bloating, headaches, and fatigue.  We’ve come to accept pain as part of the normal protocol during our periods. Some women even plan around their cycles, claiming they can’t do things on a particular week because it’s “that time of the month.”  But, c’mon, ladies…Periods shouldn’t be THAT debilitating! After all, menstruating isn’t an illness, yet we’re conditioned to believe that our periods are associated with these symptoms.  Women have become immune to what’s really going on inside their bodies and it’s time to change that.  What women need to know is that a healthy cycle starts with a healthy body.  And when we have a highly functioning nervous system, periods should be nothing more than a slight discomfort.

According to the NWHIC (National Women’s Health Information Center), about 30-40% of women suffer some impairment of daily activity before their menstrual cycle begins, while 75% of menstruating women experience some kind of premenstrual syndrome symptoms.  Symptoms can include bloating, headaches, fatigue, breast tenderness, constipation, nausea, irritability, mood swings and cramps. These symptoms can occur before, during, or even after a cycle.  Conventional methods of treatment include prescription birth control and non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (also known as NSAIDs) in attempt to ease menstrual discomfort.  These medicines provide temporary relief, but long-term use of them can have some dire consequences.  Prolonged use of NSAIDs can result in gastrointestinal problems such as bleeding, ulcerations or perforation of the stomach and intestines, which can be fatal.  Not to mention the risk of serious side effects oral contraceptives present that may lead to blood clots, heart attack and immune system suppression, just to name a few. READ MORE… »

MY FIRST PERIOD

My name is Leanne, I’m 20, and have Asperger Syndrome.  Like every other woman in the world, I get my period every month.  Although I’m not a teen or preteen anymore, I do remember what it was like.

This article can be helpful to parents of a daughter with a disability or people who work with people with special needs such as special education teachers, speech/language therapists, occupational therapists, psychiatrists, or other people whose jobs require close contact with people with disabilities.  So please read on because some of what I’m about to mention might help both you and your daughter.

My mom and I read a book about puberty and periods when I was about 9 years old.  She and I had both noticed that I was starting to develop on the outside, so she knew that it was possible that I could get my period soon.  I thought the book was about punctuation, because the title had the word ‘period’ in it.  The book also talked about things like stuff you can use when you’re on your period, what to do if you get it while you’re at school or away from home, and other stuff about periods.  If you just want to talk to your daughter about this yourself, make sure you simplify your explanation to make sure she can understand it. If you want to read a book about this with your daughter, make sure the book is appropriate to her developmental level.  Social stories have also been known to work when teaching special needs kids about puberty.  After I read the book, I was SO excited to get my period!  It was my body’s way of saying, “You’re a woman now, Leanne!”  Every time I went to the restroom, I would look for it, and one day, there it was!

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My periods have always been painful. They’d often force me to miss school, university or work, and if I was caught out in the middle of town I’d been known to lie down for an hour or two in a cubicle of a public toilet.

I got my period on the second week of my honeymoon on a remote island, and I remember feeling scared one night that there was no hospital on the island, because I was in far too much pain for comfort. So they were really no picnic to begin with.

But one month, out of nowhere, on Day 2 of my period I was suddenly gripped with the worst pain I’d ever felt, and I remained in a state of complete agony for the next two days. My husband had to rescue me from work and help me to bed. I couldn’t stand up straight. I couldn’t walk without holding onto things. It was quite scary.

At this stage my periods were longer than they used to be too: I’d gone from five day to eight day periods. So I did some neurotic late night googling, and canvassed opinions from friends, and also went to a proper doctor. It looked to all concerned like I had endometriosis maybe.

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By Marcela De Vivo

 

When I first read Are You There God, It’s Me Margaret by Judy Blume, I was still in my pre-teens—so the whole bra-wearing, period-having, growing up angst was something that I related to and wanted to know more about (except the angst part). I honestly believed that you could “increase your bust” with an odd rhyme and even odder exercise—and the fact that the girls were so desperate to get their period made me want mine too.

Boy, did they misrepresent the experience. When I finally got my period, it wasn’t a misty-eyed entrance into womanhood with moderate spotting and a proud mother. No, mine was a hormonal nightmare complete with acne flare-ups, inexplicable rages and tears, and cramping that I wouldn’t wish even on the mean girls who tormented me at school.

I didn’t quite get that they were all PMS symptoms for a while, since I wasn’t regular yet and hadn’t figured out when my period was coming. As I got older, I started making the connection between the awful symptoms and the impending monthly menses.

Once I understood the association, I started trying any number of remedies to relieve my PMS—for my sake and the sake of those around me. What I found was that yoga and meditation did a lot to help alleviate those issues.

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So I recently started my period. My mom works nights so it was just my dad and I. So when I went to the bathroom I saw something red and I was shocked but new what to do. I just got a pad because I was prepared. I just put it on my underwear and called my mom. During this time I was really shaken up. I called my mom and told her everything she said when she got home we would talk. So I told her I didn’t tell my dad. READ MORE… »

Developing Daughters
Did you know that today, girls are hitting puberty at a younger age than ever before?

With the age of onset of puberty continuing to decline, many girls are starting this very confusing, hormonally charged phase of life extremely young. According to current research, 30% of girls will start puberty by the age of 8.

It is extremely important for parents to recognize these changes, even if they are subtle – and begin communicating regularly about puberty and menstruation. Even if they are not happening to YOUR daughter, there is a good chance they are happening to some of her elementary school classmates. The sooner you can begin the dialect, the easier the facts of life will be to understand for your daughter.

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