Puberty is the stage that your body goes through during its transition from childhood to adulthood. For most girls, this transition happens between the years 8-13. A lot of focus is put on the physical aspects of puberty, but puberty causes emotional and mental changes, too. In fact, your brain starts to do the work years before you notice your first physical symptoms. Pretty crazy, right? Here are some of the most common symptoms of puberty:
- Growth spurts
- Body odor
- Hair growth in your underarms and pubic region
- Oily, acne prone skin
- Sweating more
- Breast development
- Breast soreness
- Hips widening
- White vaginal discharge
- Starting your period
- Craving your own personal space
- Desiring more privacy
- Feeling like both a child and an adult
- Fluctuating emotions
- Mood swings
- Listening skills improve
- Relationships with friends and family can deepen
- Forming your own strong opinions and ideas
- Becoming more self-conscious
There is certainly no exact science to puberty and first periods, but here is a general timeline of the order in which puberty will occur:
- Your feet and hands will start to grow at a rapid rate
- Breast buds are next for about 85% of girls. It’s totally normal if one breast begins to develop faster than the other. The other side will typically start to develop soon after the first, but it can sometimes take up to six months. (Breasts develop, on average, 2-2 ½ years before you start your period.)
- Shortly after that, you may notice vaginal discharge. (Discharge shows up, on average, about six months before you start your period.)
- Pubic hair then begins to show up and grow thicker.
- You may start to notice acne and body odor.
- Your biggest growth spurt yet will follow! It’s also totally normal to gain weight during this time.
- Many girls start their period after this big growth spurt – around two years after the initial onset of puberty.
- Once the period begins, most of your growing is done. You may still see yourself lengthening through your torso and your legs.
- 1. Be aware of your body.
- 2. Pay attention to the symptoms you’re experiencing, and when you’re experiencing them.
As you might have guessed, we are just a little tiny bit into preparation. Just kidding! We are super-de-duper into it! Being prepared has the power to transform fear into knowledge, anxiety into empowerment, and overwhelm into ease. Long story short: your period is 100% normal and nothing to fear. In fact, billions of women have gone before you – just think of it like a very big, very awesome girls club. Getting your period is just one step among many along the road to becoming a full blown adult. And being an adult is pretty cool. Still, any visitor showing up unannounced has the power to make us feel a little bit uneasy. So it only makes sense that when left unprepared, Aunt Flow can be a little difficult to embrace right away. Follow these simple steps for a quick and foolproof way to get ready for your monthly visitor:
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